Rule number one – get the death certificate first (and the burial) and all the trimmings especially the graves. –
I got my first computer in 1983, and by 1985 we (me, myself and I) were transmitting data via modems over the two home phone lines in Hong Kong to our respective work places. These years later, what the internet, and we can’t forget Google, has done for communication for the masses can hardly be comprehended, much less described. And genealogy is taking its share of internet time. What was state of the art and almost magical 35 years ago, is shunned today, after all – who on earth wants dial-up anymore?
This had more to do with honor, with my family told the truth about our ancestor – this was not a wannabe story, or any presumed snobbery about whose pedigree was more prestigious than another. Auntie did not have to join the society on her husband’s ancestry or even on a linear ancestry – in fact once found – she could join the DAR on several direct ancestors, and multiple linear, but she also had officers, and she could also join Colonial Dames and a number of other fun societies.
The monument today reads:
Major John Lewis born in Va 1757 – died in Ga 1840
A Revolutionary War soldier volunteered under Captain Marks of Charlottesville, VA. Part of the time he belonged to the regiment that was detailed as a bodyguard to General LaFayette. He was in all the principle battles that were fought in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Virginia. He was at the Battles of Monmouth, Brandy Wine, Stony Point, Germantown and lastly was present at the ever memorable surrender of Lord Cornwallis at Yorktown.
“How sleep the brave who sink to rest
With all their country’s wishes blest”
If we had had Rootsweb.com’s message boards and mailing lists back in the 1960s, and certainly if we had facebook and facebook groups, we might have posted on Friday and before breakfast on Saturday morning we might have the address of the cemetery, where in the cemetery the graves were located and where to eat in town. With any luck you might have some cousin to show up at the graveyard with pictures and the family bible to show.
But we might not have even needed any of those websites with just a “google” today. To boolean google means to enclose a phrase or phrases inside of quotations marks like
“John Lewis” DAR grave bartow
Without the quotation marks making “john lewis” an exact phrase, then your search results will be any john and any lewis but you have narrowed the number of results you get by telling the computer you only want “John Lewis” as a phrase and use this rule for all searches for people. And using the google search engine pages as opposed to other browsers – I believe gives much more clear and specific search results. so when you begin to search if your home page is not google chrome, then I suggest searching first for
Then from Google’s home main page – search for your people and their places from there.
But the rootsweb.com’s “mailing lists” and “message boards”, now maybe on their last legs taking their last breaths absorbed into history by pages devoted to capitalism, – pay sites. So use them before they go – it is still a magic place of cousins. But of course be careful – make others tell you who their people are to vet they are relatives and another great thing about the internet is that you can keep as much private as you wish. For all you folks know about me, I might be a Martian writing from the moon Europa – and I will not tell you but pretend I am actually on Alpha Centauri.
TOO LATE – as of this writing Rootsweb.com is down for repairs – We need a prayer circle they can fix what ever the problem is
But keep trying – we can hope they come back and when they do I will update all the links here for the several sections of the site which are so wonderful
If you have not gone and searched Rootsweb.com for your own people – it is genealogy 101 – for everybody, in the entire world, all colors, all races, all nationalities, and all religions. You might just find someone researching the same ancestors.
My 2005 post on Rootsweb.com message board asking if anyone knew about the family of Sarah Anne Rebecca Gillespie Lewis – and there was someone!
Finding cousins is remarkable – their side of the family side had the photo of great great grandparents Baylis W H and Sarah A R G Lewis.
Today the internet can give you all the information you need to visit the cemetery of your ancestors – do not forget to boolean google. Begin by learning what county each place is in and then make double sure about your county – because counties changed and grew and split and some places might have been located in many different counties over the years.
The town – community – county website says: “A visit to this “Norman Rockwell” kind of town is a must for anyone who loves history, antiquing and good food! Adairsville, nestled in the Oothcalooga Valley, was the first Georgia town to be listed in its entirety on the National Register of Historic Places (December 1987).”
The county of Bartow has an active facebook page with info and a place to find answers about the history and activities of the entire county.
And many pages are popping up on facebook called:
You Know You Grew Up In…
Or, Random Acts of Genealogical Kindness…
for specific places and one can search for their. And the old stand by of checking on findagrave.com for your families graves and their cemeteries.
Rootsweb is partially back up – here is the link for the mailing lists. Look for the message boards to come back as well as trees.